Beth El Temple Center

Beth El Temple Center Bulletin

November 1996

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November Worship Schedule

Special Services

Wednesday November 27

Community Thanksgiving Service at St. Lukes Roman Catholic Church (call for time)

Shabbat Services

Friday November 1st and Saturday November 2nd

Family Shabbat Service/Pot Luck: 6:15 pm
Regular Shabbat Evening Service: 8:15 pm
Shabbat Morning Service: 10:00 am
Bat Mizvah of Shira Hahn
Vayera

Friday November 8th and Saturday November 9th

BEFTY Creative Service: 8 pm
Shabbat Morning Service: 10 am
Bar Mitzvah of Ben Weiner
Chaye Sara Genesis 23:1-25:18

Friday November 15th and Saturday November 16th

Kitah Dalet Class Service: 8 pm
Shabbat Morning Service: 10 am
Tot Shabbat Service: 10:15 am
Toledot Genesis 25:19-28:9

Friday November 22nd and Saturday November 23rd

Shabbat Evening Service / November Simchas: 8 pm
Shabbat Morning / Learning Service: 10 am
Va'yetze Genesis 28:10-32:3

Friday November 29th and Saturday November 30th

Shabbat Evening Service: 8 pm
Shabbat Morning Service: 10 am
Bar Mitzvah of Jonah Nissenbaum
Va'yishlach Genesis 32:4-36:43

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From the Rabbi

American Jews owe much of our success in the United States to the constitutional separation of church and state. That principle prevents the Federal government from legislating most matters of religion. However, that separation is not designated to prevent religious people from using political action to move towards their vision of a just and compassionate society.

Clearly, fundamentalist Christians understand this distinction. In recent years, they have become increasingly active and effective in the political arena. All over the country, Pat Robertson, Ralph Reed, and the Christian Coalition continue to lobby, raise funds and elect candidates who share their religiously-grounded vision of American society. Wahtever our opinion of that vision, we must admire their energy, organization and effectiveness.

In contrast, many people in the Jewish community seem to have confused separation of church and state with the idea that religion has no place in politics. We mistakenly presume that politics is not an appropriate focus of "relgious" concern. But that attitude is contrary to the values on which both this nation and our religious tradition were founded.

If Jefferson and company believed that the Creator endows human beings with "certain unalienable rights," the surely also believed that the Creator summons us to establish a poolitical system which protects and nurtures those rights. If "justice" is an appropriate religious ideal (the word appears more than 276 times in the Hebrew Bible), if how we live together and take care of one another is an appropriate religious concern, then political activism is not only appropriate, it is a mitzvah --- a Jewish religious obligation.

All of which is simply to say, please vote. There are urgent questions of tzedek [justice] before our country. In fact, I believe our country and its leaders need the input and guidance of religiously committed Jews more than ever. We and the wisdom of our tradition have a valuable contribution to make to the national dialogue. We ought not give over the field to the Christian Coalition and their like. Theirs should not be the only relgious voices heard in America. Vote! Speak out! Act! It's a mitzvah.

Rabbi Jonathan Kraus

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President's Message

The High Holidays, Sukkot, Simchat Torah, and Shmini Atzeret are behind us. The temple has settled into a more normal but hardly less hectic routine. Downstairs our nursery school staff is busy helping the youngest set. Stop by in the afternoon and the place is jumping with teachers and students of the religious school. In the evening, there are adult education classes, meetings, and other activities in progress. We have an active community.

The dinner honoring Eleanor and Stanley Trebach was a huge success. Thank you, committee that organized this happy event. We all enjoyed meeting friends, especially perhaps the "founders" of Beth El Temple Center, those who inaugurated our building in 1956, and the "junior founders," with only 25 or 30 years of membership. They put their hearts into creating our community, and they paid to build our temple with the additional building fund assessment in effect until the 70's. Our special thanks to them.

The response to the high holiday appeal is almost overwhelming. At his time, contributions are still coming in. Thank you. The names of the donors will be included in next month's bulletin so there is time to send in a check and be recognized.

The word from two members that they have included the temple in their wills gives me an additional lift. What a great way to support our temple. would you consider joining them? You need not even notify the temple that you are leaving a bequest, but if the gift is for a special purpose, the trustees must vote to assure that it will be used as the donor intends.

What am I reporting to you? We are on track. We must continue to be careful that our operating costs are covered by our income, but we are working to meet the needs and interests of all our diverse members, now and for the future. 5757 looks good!

Stephen Winter, President

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From the Director of Education

This article is based on a d'var Torah given by Joan Carr, Director of Education at Congregation Sha'aray Shalom in Hingham, at a recent BARTE meeting.

In the special Torah reading for the holiday of Sukkot, the portion outlines sacred occasions that are fixed in the Jewish calendar --- Shabbat , Peasach, Couting the Omer, Shavout, Rosh Hashanah, Yom Kippur, and Sukkot. There is a sense of orderliness and regularity. Time is set aside on a regular basis to acknowledge our relationship to God.

In contrast, for me, and perhaps for you, so far this year has lacked orderliness. Class lists are only recently finalized Maybe the Torah and the Jewish school year are meant to be looked at together. We have school almost every Sunday, preceded by Shabbat --- an island of time to rest and reflect, or, perhaps the calm before the storm. At Pesach, registration for the next school year is in the works. School winds down with the Counting of the Omer, and concludes close to Shavout. Prior to the fall holidays is a time for evaluation, soul searching, and planning for the new year. At Sukkot, we begin to reap the harvest of our work as school moves into full swing and some of our plans bear fruit. Too soon it will be time to begin the cycle again.

The Torah describes the special offerings and sacrifices that are part of each holiday. for us, we need to give ourselves permission, as Jewish professionals, as busy parents, and families, to step back from our everyday world to create a sense of the sacred. If we take some time to worship, reflect, study and connect with God and Judaism, we can return to the everyday with a feeling of renewal.

It is my hope that the prescription of the Torah to "follow the set times of the Lord," will guide us through as we create a sense of order in our school as well as in our personal and spiritual lives.

Toby Koritsky

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From the Preschool Director

The preschoolers have experienced a great beginning in their early education of our Jewish faith. All were very involved in crafts, stories, and music relating to the fall holidays. The group learned the significance of the symbols of the high holidays --- apples, honey, shofars, and the round challah. The teachers told of Jonah and the whale, and all of us discussed forgiveness for our wrong doings and how we can behave in the coming year.

A classroom sukkah was made along with beautiful decorations to hang in the one outdoors. Fruits and vegetables were cut open and tasted. Their sizes and textures were compared. As always, Simchat Torah flags were made for the celebration. This year, our involvement included examining, naming, and making parts of the Torah.

In keeping with the fall season, and our secular learning, all of us are identifying different kinds of leaves, and noticing seasonal changes in our homes, weather, outdoors, animal lives, etc. At the same time, we are counting, sorting, and baking with apples. You are welcome to come in and admire our beautiful handmade autumn classroom decorations. Obviously, the children are all settled in and are very busy. Their individual needs are being met, and we look forward to another exciting and successful year in which our little ones will grow, learn, and make new friendships that we hope will last beyond preschool.

Rolene Karp

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In the Beth El Family . . .

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Board Briefs

Review of high holiday services was the major item of discussion at the October meeting. The extensive services were conducted with few problems. Cantor Fine's voice and rendition of the prayers were especially commended as was our new organist, Mark Dwyer, though he needs to become better accustomed to the loudness of the organ. Following a recommendation from the ritual committee, the board voted to accept, in principle, the adoption of the Gates of Repentance machzor [high holiday prayer book]. The spirituality of its prayers and the importance of its gender sensitive language both make it a preferred machzor for the high holidays. A vote for the purchase was postponed to a future board meeting, after the ritual committee presents firm figures for cost.

The board also voted to include a line on the temple statements for voluntary dues to the American Reform Zionist Association (ARZA).

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Relgious School Parking and Pick Up!!!

Please note that it is very important that we all follow the one-way signs in the parking lot. Also, please do not block the moving traffic when waiting to pick up students. If you are going to be late, please call and we will have students wait inside the building. Sudents should not be left alone in the parking lot. Thank you.

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Beth El Annual Jewish Book Fair

The Beth El Temple Center library is sponsoring a Jewish book fair to be held on:

  • Sunday, November 17th: 9 am to noon
  • Monday, Nov. 18th: 3:30-6:00 pm and 7-9 pm
  • Tuesday, Nov. 19th: 6:30-7:30 pm
  • Wednesday, Nov. 20th: 3:30-5:30 pm and 7-7:30 pm

We will have books and tapes for children of all ages and adults on many topics.

Books may be purchased directly, or we will take orders on all books that sell out, or any other Judaica books not included in the fair. For more information, call Rose at the office, 484-6668.

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With Appreciation. . .

We would like to take this opportunity to tell everyone how thrilled we are for the honor bestowed upon us, on Saturday evening, October 5th.

Our heartfelt thanks to the committee who worked so hard to make this an unforgettable evening, and to you, our friends, who helped to make all this possible.

Thank you very much,
Stan and Ellie Trebach

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Jewish Philosophy Study Group

The Jewish Philosophy Study Group will next meet on Wednesday, November 6, 1996 at 7:30 pm at the temple. We will discuss the kabballah specifically in regard to mysticism. There will be copies of the reading in the Adult Education box at the temple office. Anyone can come and join the group, and new members are always welcome. You do not need to have any prior knowledge. If you have any questions or concerns, please call me.

Julian Harlowe

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Sisterhood Rosh Chodesh Group

For our November meeting, we will have a tour of the Daughters of Israel Mikvah [ritual bath], 101 Washington Street, Brighton on Tuesday, November 12th, at 6:30 pm. We will meet for coffee afterwards to discuss what we have learned. If anyone is interested in touring the mikvah, please call Sheila Doctoroff by November 10th.

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Sisterhood Book Discussion Group

The group will meet on October 28th at a member's home. For more information, contact Marsha Mattison.

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Adult Education

This month adult learners at Beth El Temple Center, will have the opportunity to learn how, as Jews, we may interpret the stories and teachings of the bible to understand our own lives and times. "How can the bible's words bring us a clearer understanding of our humanity and also bring us closer to God?" Join Rabbi Kraus for our class of "Midrash and Meaning," when we will begin to study both ancient and contemporary examples of Midrash. Mondays, 7:30 - 9:00 PM, November 25, December 2, 9, and 16. A donation to Beth El Temple Center for $18 for the total four sessions is requested.

Also, please join us for "Lunch with the Rabbi," Thursday, noon, November 7th. A light lunch will be provided by adult ed. As of this writing, I am uncertain of the topic for discussion, but it is certain to be both provocative and interesting.

Due to a scheduling conflict, the Sunday morning learning workshop, "Judaism and the Nature of Spirituality," will not be happening on November 24th; it has been rescheduled to December 15th, at 9:30 AM.

Arlene Feinberg, Chair

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Budget Committee

The budget committee meeting scheduled for Wednesday, November 13th at 7:30 pm has been cancelled.

All committee chairs and anyone with financial requests for the fiscal year 98 budget should submit their preliminary budget requests by Wednesday, November 27th, to me, Karen Pike, via the temple office.

The first official budget committee meeting for the year will be rescheduled to Wednesday, December 11th at 8 pm, in the library.

Karen Pike, Chair

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Outreach Committee

On Sunday, November 24th at 9:30 am, the outreach committee is sponsoring a pot luck and discussion for parents of children who are married to a non-Jewish spouse. The discussion will be facilitated by Susan Farber, LICSW. It will be held at a member's home. Please contact Stephen or Bettina Winter to RSVP.

(General information is available on-line about the Reform outreach program, and regional outreach programs.)

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Religious School Committee

October was a very busy month for our school. The first Junior Congregation of the year was well attended. The participants enjoyed the Torah reading and a story. All students are encouraed to attend these services where they have the opportunity to lead and participate.

Parent meetings for grades 1, 3, and 4 were held last month. These are opportunities to learn more about the curriculum and share parent goals.

The grade 5 trip to the Jewish Community Center Art Studio in Newton, will take place on November 17th. The students will have an opportunity to make their own hanukiot. Parent drivers will be needed for carpools.

The Religious School Committee had a speaker from the Bureau of Jewish Education leading us in a discussion of Family Education and our goals for our program. Those who attended learned from her and each other about our goal's for Beth El's programming for families. If you are interested in having your vies heard, please join us. The next school committee meeting will be held on Monday November 4th at 7:30 pm in the Sloane Bride's Room.

Hildy Dvorak, Chair

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SOCIAL ACTION COMMITTEE

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Brotherhood

The next meeting is November 4th at 7:30 pm.

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Joseph Tovares, Brotherhood President

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Sisterhood

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Cradle Roll's Hanukah Party is Sunday, November 17th. If you know a child between the ages of 2 and 5 that is not currently on the list, please contact Amy Kraus or Merle Kummer to find out more details.

There will be an open Sisterhood board meeting on November 25th at the temple, 7:30 pm. Any nonboard member who would like to attend this meeting should call Sharon Feinberg so that we can have an approximate head count.

The Judaica shop will have special hours for Hanukah on Sunday, November 17th from 9 to 11 am, and Monday, December 2nd, from 4 to 6 pm.

The Mothers and Babies Group welcomes new participants. If you have a newborn to 2 year old and wish tthe company of similar moms and children, please call Jane Levin.

Sharon Feinberg, Sisterhood President

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